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Jun 01, 2026

The Carpenter's Choice: Love, Law, and a Dream

Mary: Pregnant Before Marriage

Three months after visiting her relative Elizabeth in the hill country of Judea, Mary returned home to Nazareth. By this time, she was about four months pregnant. Soon, her condition would become physically obvious, and everyone in the village would notice.

Just the thought of it was enough to terrify any young woman of her time.

Mary was betrothed to Joseph, a gentle and upright carpenter. According to Jewish custom, betrothal was as legally binding as marriage, even though the couple did not yet live together. Under the Law of Moses, if a betrothed woman was found to have been unfaithful, the punishment was incredibly severe.

Yet, Mary knew she was completely pure.

She was not carrying a child conceived of man, but by the holy power of God, just as the angel Gabriel had foretold. However, how could she possibly explain a miracle so unbelievable that it defied human understanding?

Joseph was likely the very first person she needed to see.

Joseph’s Quiet Brokenness

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